Ek Ladki Kisi Ladke Me Kya Dekh Kar Uske Baare Me Sochne Ko Majbur Hoti Hai

 

Aap ek amazing girl se mile. Jo ki bahut jyada hot, hilarious and chill hai. Obviously aap chahenge ki vo ladki aap par interest le or aapke baare me sochne ke liye majbur ho jaye – but how? Issi problem ko solve karne ke liye aaj hum “Ek Ladki Kisi Ladke Me Kya Dekh Kar Uske Baare Me Sochne Ko Majbur Hoti Hai” iss topic ko share karne jaa rahe hai. Umeed karte hai ki aapko isse kuch to help milegi.

Ab jaisa ki sabko pta hai ki every girl is different, if they were all the same, you wouldn’t be interested in this one in particular, now would you? Yahan aapko bahut sare different tarikebatane jaa rahe hai jisse aap unke liye attract hone lagenge or aapke baare me sochne par majbur ho jayenge. So check out below to see kaise aap unhe khud ke liye sochne par majbur karte hai.

• HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE

Agar aap kissi bhi “friend zone” par easily fit ho jaate hai to ye especially important bhi hai or acha bhi hai. Real girl (jiske paas ek strong sense of purpose and self worth hai) ko plastic wrap ki tarah jude hue log jinki koi life nahi hoti ko pasand nahi karte hai. Some girls ko aise bhi ladke pasand aate hai but for all the wrong reasons – either vo insecure hote han and attention ki jaroort padne lagti hai, or they are control freaks jisse dominating guys ki jaroort hoti hai. Unless ap sign up vahan karna chahte hai jahan scenarious, focus filling your time with your own friendships, interests, hobbies and goals hai. Isse usko ek chance mil jata hai do something with you without it becoming a date.

• LOOK NEAT

Khud ko attractive dikhane ke liye neat and clean rehna bahut jaroori hai tabhi to ladki aap me kuch khas dekh ke aapke baare me sochne par majbur ho jayegi. Agar aap chahte hai ki ladki aapko like kare, to uske liye cleanliness and appearance extremely important hai. Girls mostly notice karti hai bad breath, flab, body odor and greasy hair so guys girls ye notice kare usse pahle apni personality ko notice karvaye. Unhe chance de ki vo aapki good qualities ko dekh sake by making a good first impression. Stay in shape – uske liye workout regular kare jisse pta lage ki aapko apni body ki care hai. Have good personal hygiene – teeth ko brush karna, shave karna etc. etc. aisa kuch kare jisse aap par ek positive impact pade or aapka confidence level increase hoye. Smell or look nice par hamesha sure rahe. Or han deodorant ka bhi use kare.

• SPEAK TO HER

Bina baat kare aap usse kaise khud par attractive karva sakte hai jisse vo aapke baare me sochne par majbur ho jaye. So uske liye aapko usse baat karne ke liye effort marne honge, even if approaching her seems scary at first. Jo bhi aap me common hai jaise aapki hobbies and interests uske baare me baat kare or highlight kare. Become her friend; friend ki tarah hi rahe jyada close rahne ki jaroort nahi hai.

• FLIRT

Flirty bane rahne se aap friend zone se alag rahne me help milti hai because it will remind the girl that aap ek good friend ke sath sath ek attractive person bhi ho. Jab bhi aap jisse pasand karte ho se milte ho to, brief eye contact and smile bana ke rakhe. Strike up a casual, flirty conversation bana ke rakhe and dekhe ki vo kaise react karti hai. Agar aap uski eyes ko avoid karte ho ya nervous act karte ho to, vo aap ko notice hi kya aap se baat karna bhi pasand nahi karegi. Girls mainly body language or emotions par react karti hai. Agar aap usse happy feel karvate ho to, vo aapko ek caring and funny person se dekhne lag jaati hai. If you creep them out, to vo nervous bhi ho sakti hai – jisme fights ka hona preferable hai.

COMPLIMENT HER

Compliment kisko pasand nahi hote hai or especially girls ko. Agar aap really someone ko pasand karte ho, to aapko probably bahut sari things about her ke liye appreciate karni chahiye. Why not let her know? Agar kuch different ya new hai to make note of it. Compliment hameshasache dil se kiya gaya ho to hi uska maja hai. But dhyan rakhe ki har kissi ne ek hi baat kahi hai to aap kuch something different use kare. Jisse vo notice kare aapko or aapki baato ko bhule bhi na. But iss mamle me thoda pyar se rahna padta hai doston. Or sath hi sath compliment ke sath apka impression bhi acha hona chahiye.

• IMPRESS HER

There’s no one-size-fits-all solution here. Your best bet is to be yourself. Ek unique skill, talent or something difficult jisse aapko khud par proud hai usko demonstrate kare, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only girl ko good feel karvane ke liye about you, but isliye bhi taki aapka confidence boost ho sake. Be careful not to be cocky. Impress her, but apne great achievements and plans ke bare me too much boast na hoye. Self confidence ek attractive quality hai, extreme cockiness most girls ke liye ek huge turnoff hai.

• TAKE YOUR TIME

Don’t be pushy or needy. Nice girls normally longer time leti hai than boys deep feelings ke liye. If you end up in a relationship with this girl, jab tum sirf ek dusre ko jante the tab kaise feel kiya tha hamesha yaad karenge. Make her feel appreciated, not invisible or smothered.

• ASK HER OUT

Jab aap comfortable feel karne lagoge, tab usse somewhere ke liye invite kare or to do something with you. Make sure ki something aisa hona chahiye jo both ko interesting lage. If you want to apni duniya usse dikhaye. Bring her somewhere jahan aap comfortable ho and preferably, something jo karne me aapko proud feel ho.

• MAKE HER FEEL IMPORTANT

Jab aap usse important feel hi nahi karvaoge to vo aapke bare me sochne ke liye majbur kaise hoyegi. Chivalry is not dead. Basically uski care kare. Ek true gentleman ki nishani vahi hoti hai jab vo ek lady ko lady ki tarah feel karvaye. Ek ladki hamesha se yahi chahti hai ki usse koi important and value feel karvaye.

• BE ROMANTIC

The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles, chocolate and teddy bears) can only go so far. Vo soche jo kissi ko really me excited kar deta hai. Recognize what makes her unique; find kare and vahi kare jo vo appreciate karti hai. Romantic ka hona matlab acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know – iss world me anyone else se better ho.Jab vo baat kare to attention de. Jo vo love karti hai ya make her unizue uski ek mental list bana ke rakhe. What are her quirky interests, obsessions and fantasies? What makes her eyes light up? Girls ye bahut jaldi notice karti hai agar aapko bahut time pahle ki baate yaad ho.

So guys umeed karte hai ki aapko itne saare tips padh kar kuch na kuch idea to jaroor mil gya hoga. Agar aapke mind me koi or bhi ideas hai to aap hume comment niche likh sakte hai. Thankx for visiting our site and to get more information about other article then stay tuned with us. Enjoy and be happy.

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अगर आप में ये आदत है तो कोई भी लड़की आप पर हो जाएँगी फ़िदा और करने लगेगी आप से प्यार . If you have the habit will be a girl crush on you,

 हर लड़का का  चाहता है कि उसको एक ऐशी गर्ल फ्रेंड मिले जो उसे बहुत प्यार करे , और ज़िन्दगी भर उसे प्यार करे ?
हालाँकि ये  इच्छा बहुत कम लडको कि पूरी हो  पाता है. क्यूंकि अगर आपको कुछ स्पेशल करना है तो आपको कुछ अलग हट कर के काम करना होगा..
दोस्तों, आज हम आपको इसी बारे में बताने जा रहे है, जो  कैसे कोई लड़की किसी लड़के पर फ़िदा हो जाती है.आप पर लट्टू हो जाती है.

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हर  लड़की  एषा चाहती है कि उसकी  पार्टनर उसके साथ समय बिताये  और साथ में बैठ कर कुछ प्यार कि बाते करे ., दोस्तों, ये करने में थोरा फ़िल्मी लगता है, महशुस भी होता है ., क्यूंकि हर  समय आप आपने प्यार के लिए फ्री नहीं रहते है  रह हि नहीं सकते है, ऐसे भी हर कोई हर टाइम में फ्री नहीं होते है. इसलिए जितना  हो सके  गर्ल फ्रेंड को समय दे ओ आप से इम्प्रेस हो जाएँगी .!


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जब आप  डेट पर जाते है इसका ये मतलब कि आप उनके साथ कुछ हशीन पालो को  एन्जॉय       आये है , आप एक दुसरे के साथ कुछ हसीं पालो को एन्जॉय करने आये है . ऐशे में अगर आप फ़ोन से चिपके रहते है तो आपको पार्टनर को भी बुरा लगेगा .  साथ में आपके लिए उनके मन में एक ग्बलत इमागेर बन जाएगी. . और आप दोनों में कुछ अलग  हि महशुस करने लगिए गा .,
इसलिए इसक सीधा समाधान है,. आप डेटिंग पर जाते है तो आपना फ़ोन बंद रखिये , बेहतर होगा कि , आपके रिलेशन  मजबूत होगा.... 

   3  .       प्यार जाताना आता हो :- ये बहुत जरूरी है कि आपको ये प्यार जाताना आना चाहिए......................

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     4 .   गिफ्ट्स का आपना हि कुछ  मजा है.    इस दुनिया में कोई ऐशी लड़की नहीं है , जिसे गिफ्ट पसंद न हो..

इस  दुनिया में कोई भी ऐशी लड़की नहीं होगी जिसे गिफ्ट पसंद न हो. किसी भी लड़की को गिफ्ट देने   से प्यार बढ़ता है.. अगर आपको पार्टनर के दिल में जगह बनानी है तो हमेशा गिफ्ट दिया करो. उन्हें ये बहुत पसंद आते है. यह दिया हुआ गिफ्ट तब ज्यादा काम आता है, कि जब आपकी गर्ल फ्रेंड से  लड़ाई हो गई हो तब कुछ ज्यादा काम करता है एक दुश्रे के नजदीक लाने में . तब ये काफी काम गर साबित होते है...

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 कभी भी आपनी   गर्ल फ्रेंड पर आपनी मर्जी न थोपे.   उन्हें उनका स्पेस दे | हर लड़की ये चाहती है कि वह आपनी  मर्जी से जीवन  जीना चाहती है. अगर आप उसे एषा करने देंगे तो ओ आपके साथ ज़िन्दगी भर रहना पसंद करेंगी. और आप से कभी दूर जाने कि भी नहीं सोचे गी.

LOVE MARRIAGES love marrege.............................................

In cultures where love marriages are a norm, one of the lovers usually proposes the marriage and the other accepts or rejects the proposal. Some people put in a lot of thought and effort into planning and scheduling their proposals, whereas others do it spontaneously.

You could go down on one knee the moonlit terrace of a five-star hotel. Alternatively, you could just light some candles in the bedroom to create a bit of atmosphere before you pop the question. It all depends on your taste and style.

To know more about what you should and shouldn’t do when you’re proposing, have a look at our Marriage proposals: do’s and don’ts.

You might be proposing a marriage or accepting a proposal, but how do you know that you’ve chosen the right person? When’s the right time to get married? Can you ever be entirely sure? What if it goes wrong? All these might be legitimate concerns, if you’re making up your mind on marriage. And you’re not alone, almost everyone getting married faces these challenges. It’s a big decision after all – are you ready to spend the rest of your life with this person?

IS HE S/HE THE RIGHT SPOUSE FOR ME?

In the excitement of being in love it can be hard to think straight and make sensible choices. If you’re having trouble deciding if it’s right to tie the knot, here are some questions for you to think about. They’re just a guide to help you listen to your heart, listen to your head, and feel sure about your decision.

• Are you sure you’re not just infatuated?
  When you’re in love, you tend to turn a blind eye to the flaws in your partner’s personality. Make sure you are basing your decision to get married on a deeper understanding of your lover or partner.
   
• How well do you know you partner?
  Have you seen them in their own family, with their own friends? How does s/he behave with your group of pals? Do they mingle and mix well? This will help you suss if your partner is comfortable with people and can make a place for themselves, in keeping with their own personality.
   
• Are you good friends as well as being lovers?
  Are you compatible with each other on different levels – sexually, emotionally and intellectually? Great sex can’t keep your marriage alive forever. Both of you need to share an emotional bond with each other too.
   
• How well do you communicate with your partner?
  Do you think the two of you can solve all problems by talking it through? Do you find it easy to talk to your partner without fear of offending them or being judged? Are you able to talk openly and honestly about tricky issues you might disagree about? Are you able to resolve conflicts peacefully and amicably?
   
• Do you have a lot of respect for your partner?
  Can you say that you love and admire them for the person they are? What qualities do you like in your could-be life partner? Make a list.
   
• Do you love and admire them as the person they are, not the person you want them to be?
  Do you find yourself constantly correcting them, or trying to ‘improve’ them?
   
• Do you share the same expectations of the wedding?
  Do you expect a grand affair and while they’re imagining a simple ceremony? Is there any expectation of dowry or ‘give and take’? Does this square with your politics?

            
 

• Are you both comfortable with each other’s career prospects?
  Have you discussed your career options and ambitions with each other? Does this fit in with your own plans for yourself? If the two of you are keen on pursuing your own careers, have you discussed household roles and responsibilities?
   
• Have you and your partner discussed living arrangements after marriage?
  Will you be sharing a house with your partner’s family? If so, how does that make you feel? Do you have any objections to that? Do you think this arrangement will help your relationship blossom or could it get stifling? Have you discussed this with your partner?
   
• Have you discussed whether or not you will have children?
  This needs a detailed discussion. If you decide to wait a while before having children, what will happen if you do get pregnant early in your marriage? Would you have the baby? Or would you consider an abortion? Would your partner support that decision?
   
• Do you both share similar values?
  Have you ever had arguments on matters that you feel strongly about? Do your views match on topics like women’s rights, sexual harassment, abortion, adoption, other religious communities, caste, or homosexuality?
   
• What is your partner’s relationship with money?
  Are the two of you totally compatible on this issue? How does your partner behave when it comes to spending? Do you tend to find him or her too tight fisted or too extravagant? Can you discuss money openly? Will you be sharing a bank account or manage and keep finances independent? Are you expected to share in the family’s expenses, and if so, how much? Will one of you be dependent on the other, and are you happy about that?
   
• Do you see yourself growing old with this person?
  Do you feel like you’ll still want to be together when you’re old and grey?

FAMILY DISAGREEMENTS

What if you really love your partner and are sure you want to get married to them, but your parents just don’t agree with your decision? It could be because your partner belongs to another race, religion or caste. It could also be, for example, because they don’t approve of your lover’s profession or financial status, or how they behave, or what their family represents.

You don’t want to let your parents down and hurt their feelings. At the same time you want to live your life with someone you love. Here are some tips to help you get through this difficult phase:

• Be honest with your parents.
  Let your parents know of why you think you’ve made the right choice. (Your answers to the questions in ‘Is he s/he the right spouse for me?’ will help you explain.)
   
• Have your families meet each other, if possible. 
  Dining together is a good idea.
   
• Listen to what your parents’ objections and worries are.
  Be aware that they love you and would want to see you happy. Value their experience about life and relationships. Try to understand their objections.
   
• Clear your parents’ doubts.
  Once you know why they think your partner isn’t fit for you, answer their questions. Convince them of your decision, using examples and anecdotes.
   
• Don’t threaten or blackmail your parents.
  This could only complicate the situation. They won’t feel free to express themselves freely, and they might respond with anger or lecturing. If your parents emotionally blackmail you, let them know that it isn’t constructive. Tell them you’re open to dialogue.
   
• Be patient.
  Prejudices that have piled up over years won’t disappear in a week or two. Give your parents time. Be ready to engage and discuss the issue, for as long as they are asking.
   
• Find other family members who might support your decision.
  Differing opinions from within the family could make your parents think deeper about their views.
   
• Try family counselling.
  Expert help from a counsellor can help resolve even the most complicated of issues.
   
• Keep your partner in the loop throughout the process.
  Find ways to stay together and spend times that aren’t just stressful. Listen to their advice, and observe how they behave during such a difficult time in your life. 

GET HELP

Of course this approach won’t always work. We think it’s always best to talk, but sometimes it’s not possible to negotiate with your family, especially in conservative settings. If you need help and advice, don’t shy away from contacting this helpline:
The Vandrevela 24x7 and across 14 states): 022-25706000

THE RISKS OF BEING DIFFERENT

Love marriages could also bring along some practical challenges. If you speak different languages, or belong to different castes, or practise different religions, it might mean adjusting to these cultural differences. Life is not a Hindi filmy scene and getting around these issues can be very difficult.

Sometimes these differences, especially in caste and religion, could be harder to overcome. In many parts of India couples face real threats to their lives if their community thinks they are besmirching their honour by marrying someone from outside of their caste or religion. There have even been murders, so-called ‘honour killings’, because couples have fallen in love and decided to marry each other against their community’s liking. Depending on where you’re from and what your background is, you need to weigh the risks and be sure about marrying someone who doesn’t belong to your caste or religion. 

HOW TO ELOPE

Thousands of couples elope every year to get married – that means they go off together and get married in secret. People do it for a lot of different reasons. In the West, more and more couples are eloping to avoid the big drama aroundweddings. Couples that prefer a quiet ceremony over a big wedding party choose to register their marriage without much hullabaloo. They then break the news to their parents and family.

In some cultures, like in India, couples elope because their parents or families strongly oppose their marriage on grounds of religion or caste. Imagine this: you’re in love with someone and are sure of wanting to marry them, but your parents won’t allow the marriage because your partner is from a different background. You’ve tried negotiating with your family, but it isn’t working out. So you might feel like eloping with your partner and having a secret wedding is the only way out.

The section is titled ‘how to elope’, but before you decide to elope, ask yourself a few serious questions: 

• Am I really up for it?
• What are the risks involved?
• Will I be financially secure if my family cuts me off?
• Do I fully trust the person I plan to elope with?
• Am I marrying out of love or something else?
• Am I doing this because I am facing pressure from my partner?

TREAD WITH CAUTION

Understanding the consequences of eloping and the risks involved will help you to make an informed decision. While some couples can do without their family’s support, others can’t.

You should always keep in mind that eloping can have dangerous consequences. Some people have even been murdered while trying to elope. If you think you will be able to win over your family or community once you have tied the knot, that could be true – but it could just be wishful thinking.

Some couples who elope are eventually accepted by their families. But others are disowned and never get to come back into their own or their marital family for years and years – for weddings, births or funerals, or even if the whole family emigrates.

So we’d advise you to always tread with caution. If you’re in India and have questions about how to elope, you can call the following helpline:

Love Commandos
Helpline: 09313784375/09313550006
Email:  helpline@lovecommandos.org
Website: http://lovecommandos.org

To read more about the topic, check out Eloping: top five facts. 

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